I have heard one statement that for one's misery he is himself responsible, doesn't matter in what way.I have tested it too at many examples and found it correct too except the few. This few examples are beyond explaining power of mind and we explain it by name of luck. Two example I'll take here. In one family the only son dies and in another bride loses her husband. Now how would I figure out who is responsible for that mother's and bride's misery. Extremist support like me who just want to explain this rule would say they are responsible as they were too much in attachment with them. they should not have that in love for them. That's how this 'incarnation' theory came just to explain the sorrow of innocent and it was said that what they have done in previous births, this bad time is result of that. This 'Incarnation theory' explain one more thing which I will mention with one example.
There was a person Ramlal in a village. He was very bad, dishonest and rude person. He took over all ancestral property from his own brothers and ditched them. He showed partiality among his sons. He always abused people whetherthey are there relatives or unknowns. People thought that he will get the result of his evil one day but his son treated him well in his old age and he remained healthy during his life-time. He died in his nineties at very religious and spiritual moment with without any pain. All people were too stunned at his death timing. They were not unhappy for his life not being miserable but were unhappy for his death timing and some of them called him lucky and few consoled them with 'Incarnation theory'.
As days of my life passing it's getting difficult for me to be in resonance with people as they are stuck with their already known theories and they want me to believe them too. They are in high majority and I would say they are all leaving some exceptions and very less of them just dare to think "The inside story". Those previous theories like "GOD", "INCARNATION", "LUCK", "GHOST", "astrology" etc. are just to explain human-mind unexpainable facts. There is a fact that sorrow of happiness can not be continuous. So These theories like astrology works good and provide a base to suffering people and give them confidence to wait for good time in hopeful manner.
I am unhappy nowadays because when i don't take decision everyone says learn to take your decision and whenever I take my decision but I am suspecious about their accuracy so I don't execute it then they say just have confidence in yourself and execute them and when I execute them they say you did it wrong. They say "What is wrong with you. Generally you don't take decision and whenever you take, you take it wrong." NOw one big and I would say one of the biggest question comes against me "what is wrong and what is right" and one question attached with this is "who has the right the say something wrong or right". I know the answer of this question but I know majority won't be agree with it again but I will state it.What I believe is "Everything is result-oriented and this nature is directing everything so whenever you do something nature automatically tells you whether you are correct or not by the success or failure of your deed. There is no absolute certain way to do something, It changes according to man,place and time.".
Saturday, June 12, 2010
Monday, May 24, 2010
Our Cultural Pride:1
I was thinking from long time that what I have heard is correct about our country from all of its inhabitants. In my childhood I studied in Adarsh Vidhya Mandir run by RSS which used to fill the fresh and blank minds with the spirit of pride for country as well as hinduism. Our prayer used to consists some songs which meant " India has been golden sparrow, this is the big originator of courageous people and leader of world. " The song didn't last so early and had the glory description of its golden time around the reign of great king Chandragupt Maurya. This song also talked about glory of Veda and many other good rituals which really showed Indian prosperity and high values of culture.
I am talking bout this pride because today we are proud on those things we are not part of. Every action we take we try to justify it with our past by saying " We were best so We are best and whatever we do is correct ". Sometimes it feels like we are trying to hide our frustration as in our heart we know that we are living the distorted conventions and they aren't relevant in today's context. I would point out our few double standards where what we applaud and what we do.
(1) Caste system : In ancient time caste system was not defined by birth but as one caste became superior to others by using its power in wrong manner, the people who captured the label of higher caste never wanted that his sun or daughter don't get profit of the inappropriate rules they made to enjoy for their caste only. By defining other rules they made the caste defined by birth.
(2) Marriage System : This distortion is quite related to the previous problem. As marriage was supposed to be in those families which have same interests. This was the approximation that if couple has same interests then they will understand each other more as well as they will have equal mental status and there will be good resonance between that couple. Over the years things changed and in the name of respect of elders everyone had to follow the caste system and distorted marriage system and its going on in same manner. But I would definitely say if elders try to stop their child from marrying his beloved one in the name of "Sanskars", will it be justified.
(3) Considering superior to others : It is good to have pride on our culture whether it has its past glory or not. for example If someone's mother is black and ugly, she is still the most beautiful woman in the world for him. But this doesn't say he has right to say others mother ugly. Lately I have been listening many bad things from various senior people that We are best and other cultures are worse. If one ask them how they are worse then they will tell u that we are one of the oldest culture and at those times when we were prosperous then they used to live in forests. They criticize them for their nudity with whom i am agree to big extent and the thing we are following most in last few decades. Some people say about their ways of doing things like they don't touch feet to welcome elders which is totally ridiculous as they welcome three times a day by their own ways.
I am talking bout this pride because today we are proud on those things we are not part of. Every action we take we try to justify it with our past by saying " We were best so We are best and whatever we do is correct ". Sometimes it feels like we are trying to hide our frustration as in our heart we know that we are living the distorted conventions and they aren't relevant in today's context. I would point out our few double standards where what we applaud and what we do.
(1) Caste system : In ancient time caste system was not defined by birth but as one caste became superior to others by using its power in wrong manner, the people who captured the label of higher caste never wanted that his sun or daughter don't get profit of the inappropriate rules they made to enjoy for their caste only. By defining other rules they made the caste defined by birth.
(2) Marriage System : This distortion is quite related to the previous problem. As marriage was supposed to be in those families which have same interests. This was the approximation that if couple has same interests then they will understand each other more as well as they will have equal mental status and there will be good resonance between that couple. Over the years things changed and in the name of respect of elders everyone had to follow the caste system and distorted marriage system and its going on in same manner. But I would definitely say if elders try to stop their child from marrying his beloved one in the name of "Sanskars", will it be justified.
(3) Considering superior to others : It is good to have pride on our culture whether it has its past glory or not. for example If someone's mother is black and ugly, she is still the most beautiful woman in the world for him. But this doesn't say he has right to say others mother ugly. Lately I have been listening many bad things from various senior people that We are best and other cultures are worse. If one ask them how they are worse then they will tell u that we are one of the oldest culture and at those times when we were prosperous then they used to live in forests. They criticize them for their nudity with whom i am agree to big extent and the thing we are following most in last few decades. Some people say about their ways of doing things like they don't touch feet to welcome elders which is totally ridiculous as they welcome three times a day by their own ways.
Monday, April 26, 2010
Darakth
har darakth hai ek maayus khamashi oodhe hue
jaise apni bezuban juban se koi khamosh geet bayan kar raha ho
loo ke garam thapedon ko sahte hue usne dopahar gujari hai
fir bhi har sham sheetal hawa se satkaar karna uski niyati hai
apne kaarwan ko insaani hathiyaro se ujadte dekhkar
apne akelepan pe man hi man aasoo baha raha hai wo
jinse apni wyatha kahe sake wo kab ke ja chuke usse door
ab apni baari ka inzaar karte hue waqt gujar raha hai chintan me
koi galti kabhi na hui use bus paropkar ke siva
shayad isi khata ka itna bada karz chukana pada hai use
apne kahtam hone se jyada bhi gam hai use kissi baat par
shayad apne hatyaro ke vinaash ki aahat suni hai usne
nishkam hokar sirf dena hi seekha ho jisne jeevan bhar
lene wale ki ahsaan-faramoshi pe achraj aa raha hai use
jaise apni bezuban juban se koi khamosh geet bayan kar raha ho
loo ke garam thapedon ko sahte hue usne dopahar gujari hai
fir bhi har sham sheetal hawa se satkaar karna uski niyati hai
apne kaarwan ko insaani hathiyaro se ujadte dekhkar
apne akelepan pe man hi man aasoo baha raha hai wo
jinse apni wyatha kahe sake wo kab ke ja chuke usse door
ab apni baari ka inzaar karte hue waqt gujar raha hai chintan me
koi galti kabhi na hui use bus paropkar ke siva
shayad isi khata ka itna bada karz chukana pada hai use
apne kahtam hone se jyada bhi gam hai use kissi baat par
shayad apne hatyaro ke vinaash ki aahat suni hai usne
nishkam hokar sirf dena hi seekha ho jisne jeevan bhar
lene wale ki ahsaan-faramoshi pe achraj aa raha hai use
Saturday, February 6, 2010
"शाम से आँख में नमी सी है" --Jagjeet singh
शाम से आँख में नमी सी है
आज फिर आपकी कमी सी है
So true lines which are making me restless a bit. it's all life and one has to face and come over everything and none has the right to be exception in this case. Beauty of this song is far more than I can express with these two lines and if someone can feel next two lines then he really deserves to be called imotional.
दफ़न कर दो हमे साँस मिले
नब्ज़ कुछ देर से थमी सी है
If I keep myself confined to these lines then I should try not to be satiated too early as there are few more remarkable words which doesn't need any description but requires a deep sorrow heart with intense feeling.
वक़्त रहता नही कहीं टिककर
इसकी आदत भी आदमी सी है
just thinking for lovely time and cursing it for its end but the truth is, if time will not last whether its good or bad it will lost its uniqueness and this is the only quality which only time has as it does not repeat anything in identical manner twice.
कोई रिश्ता नही रहा फिर भी
एक तस्वीर लाज़मी सी है
Few relations are there just to show that they are but few are there but to show that they are not there but they will exist always.
आज फिर आपकी कमी सी है
So true lines which are making me restless a bit. it's all life and one has to face and come over everything and none has the right to be exception in this case. Beauty of this song is far more than I can express with these two lines and if someone can feel next two lines then he really deserves to be called imotional.
दफ़न कर दो हमे साँस मिले
नब्ज़ कुछ देर से थमी सी है
If I keep myself confined to these lines then I should try not to be satiated too early as there are few more remarkable words which doesn't need any description but requires a deep sorrow heart with intense feeling.
वक़्त रहता नही कहीं टिककर
इसकी आदत भी आदमी सी है
just thinking for lovely time and cursing it for its end but the truth is, if time will not last whether its good or bad it will lost its uniqueness and this is the only quality which only time has as it does not repeat anything in identical manner twice.
कोई रिश्ता नही रहा फिर भी
एक तस्वीर लाज़मी सी है
Few relations are there just to show that they are but few are there but to show that they are not there but they will exist always.
Monday, January 25, 2010
literature Festival : Another chance to be intellectual
Being from Hindi medium school (specially in collaboration with RSS ) I have been largely affected by hinduism but now as English media is trying from last some decades is blindly criticism for any of that task or spirit which is supported by RSS and I am also changing my taste day by day. The seventh was the first class when I started to have feeling for literature and I was just confined to biography of ancient Indian legends like Vivekanand, Mahaveer Swami and a few others.After two years I started with some non-biographical book and Premchand was the favourite one ("GODAN" and "GABAN" are those books") who shown me direction to think for human which was basically very much similar to communism.
There was an opportunity for me to read one famous novel "लज्जा" and I was quite immature for that in those days.Taslima Nasreen, Writer of that book who wrote against the cruelty of Bangladeshi Muslims and suffering exile from more then fifteen years from her home, has shown courage in that book to say the truth and being in favour of the weaker people at any cost. I am just so impressed by her contribution to literature and just want to add that she has empowered literature by extending its sub-branches from love-description, nature-description, beauty-descripiton and courage-spirit writing to justice-writing. I strongly believe that one should study that book so that he can also have one ideal in his mind to oppose the injustice despite all opposite situations.
A book "गुनाहों का देवता" is one more book I appreciate and recommend to each of my friends. Just for the sake of waking interest in that book I am just giving small description of that book. The book is all about sacred love and how a person doesn't know that he really loves someone because the love was not with her body but with heart. But you can't expect happy endings in real life and how the story goes on is too heart-grieving that makes difficult to control tears of readers. One might have seen many movies on love and probably direcors and script-writers tried to touch each and every angle of love but still they are away from this story which not mere a story but a feeling and this can be felt just by reading this book.
Another book Anand Math written by Bankimchandra chatterji was a mixture of story and verses and our national song has been picked up from this book. It was a good book giving the feeling of one century ago and just reminding how change people used to be at that time and how much courage they shown just to intact their glory. A few more good writes like Sharatchandra chatterji who wrote "चरित्रहीन" and "पथ के दावेदार " just shown the literary skill and intellectuality of Bangla-writes.
From last few years I haven't studied many hindi novel and definitely not many english novels too but really will be starting as these novels are tools to sharpen your imagination powers memory skill as well as thinking ability ( विचार क्षमता ). First of all I will be going for Russian writers who wrote in all diversified fields but mostly on philosophy which always fascinates me.
There was an opportunity for me to read one famous novel "लज्जा" and I was quite immature for that in those days.Taslima Nasreen, Writer of that book who wrote against the cruelty of Bangladeshi Muslims and suffering exile from more then fifteen years from her home, has shown courage in that book to say the truth and being in favour of the weaker people at any cost. I am just so impressed by her contribution to literature and just want to add that she has empowered literature by extending its sub-branches from love-description, nature-description, beauty-descripiton and courage-spirit writing to justice-writing. I strongly believe that one should study that book so that he can also have one ideal in his mind to oppose the injustice despite all opposite situations.
A book "गुनाहों का देवता" is one more book I appreciate and recommend to each of my friends. Just for the sake of waking interest in that book I am just giving small description of that book. The book is all about sacred love and how a person doesn't know that he really loves someone because the love was not with her body but with heart. But you can't expect happy endings in real life and how the story goes on is too heart-grieving that makes difficult to control tears of readers. One might have seen many movies on love and probably direcors and script-writers tried to touch each and every angle of love but still they are away from this story which not mere a story but a feeling and this can be felt just by reading this book.
Another book Anand Math written by Bankimchandra chatterji was a mixture of story and verses and our national song has been picked up from this book. It was a good book giving the feeling of one century ago and just reminding how change people used to be at that time and how much courage they shown just to intact their glory. A few more good writes like Sharatchandra chatterji who wrote "चरित्रहीन" and "पथ के दावेदार " just shown the literary skill and intellectuality of Bangla-writes.
From last few years I haven't studied many hindi novel and definitely not many english novels too but really will be starting as these novels are tools to sharpen your imagination powers memory skill as well as thinking ability ( विचार क्षमता ). First of all I will be going for Russian writers who wrote in all diversified fields but mostly on philosophy which always fascinates me.
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