Know more, get called stupid

I have heard one statement that for one's misery he is himself responsible, doesn't matter in what way.I have tested it too at many examples and found it correct too except the few. This few examples are beyond explaining power of mind and we explain it by name of luck. Two example I'll take here. In one family the only son dies and in another bride loses her husband. Now how would I figure out who is responsible for that mother's and bride's misery. Extremist support like me who just want to explain this rule would say they are responsible as they were too much in attachment with them. they should not have that in love for them. That's how this 'incarnation' theory came just to explain the sorrow of innocent and it was said that what they have done in previous births, this bad time is result of that. This 'Incarnation theory' explain one more thing which I will mention with one example.

There was a person Ramlal in a village. He was very bad, dishonest and rude person. He took over all ancestral property from his own brothers and ditched them. He showed partiality among his sons. He always abused people whetherthey are there relatives or unknowns. People thought that he will get the result of his evil one day but his son treated him well in his old age and he remained healthy during his life-time. He died in his nineties at very religious and spiritual moment with without any pain. All people were too stunned at his death timing. They were not unhappy for his life not being miserable but were unhappy for his death timing and some of them called him lucky and few consoled them with 'Incarnation theory'.

As days of my life passing it's getting difficult for me to be in resonance with people as they are stuck with their already known theories and they want me to believe them too. They are in high majority and I would say they are all leaving some exceptions and very less of them just dare to think "The inside story". Those previous theories like "GOD", "INCARNATION", "LUCK", "GHOST", "astrology" etc. are just to explain human-mind unexpainable facts. There is a fact that sorrow of happiness can not be continuous. So These theories like astrology works good and provide a base to suffering people and give them confidence to wait for good time in hopeful manner.

I am unhappy nowadays because when i don't take decision everyone says learn to take your decision and whenever I take my decision but I am suspecious about their accuracy so I don't execute it then they say just have confidence in yourself and execute them and when I execute them they say you did it wrong. They say "What is wrong with you. Generally you don't take decision and whenever you take, you take it wrong." NOw one big and I would say one of the biggest question comes against me "what is wrong and what is right" and one question attached with this is "who has the right the say something wrong or right". I know the answer of this question but I know majority won't be agree with it again but I will state it.What I believe is "Everything is result-oriented and this nature is directing everything so whenever you do something nature automatically tells you whether you are correct or not by the success or failure of your deed. There is no absolute certain way to do something, It changes according to man,place and time.".